{"id":40532,"date":"2013-06-13T12:00:37","date_gmt":"2013-06-13T17:00:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/beta.pewresearch.org\/pewresearch-org\/2013\/06\/13\/the-coming-out-experience-age-when-you-first-thought-knew-told\/"},"modified":"2024-04-14T04:09:11","modified_gmt":"2024-04-14T09:09:11","slug":"the-coming-out-experience-age-when-you-first-thought-knew-told","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beta.pewresearch.org\/pewresearch-org\/social-trends\/2013\/06\/13\/the-coming-out-experience-age-when-you-first-thought-knew-told\/","title":{"rendered":"Personal Milestones in the Coming Out Experience"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The Pew Research Center\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/beta.pewresearch.org\/pewresearch-org\/social-trends\/2013\/06\/13\/a-survey-of-lgbt-americans\/\">survey of 1,197 lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender adults<\/a> asked respondents about three key points in their coming out journey\u2014when they <a href=\"#first-thought\">first felt<\/a> they might be something other than straight or heterosexual, when they <a href=\"#first-knew\">knew for sure<\/a> they were LGBT and when they <a href=\"#first-told\">first told<\/a> a close friend or family member. 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