{"id":94620,"date":"2013-04-15T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2013-04-15T05:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/beta.pewresearch.org\/pewresearch-org\/2013\/04\/15\/never-assume-that-what-you-are-seeing-or-experiencing-is-everyone-elses-reality\/"},"modified":"2024-04-14T04:17:32","modified_gmt":"2024-04-14T09:17:32","slug":"never-assume-that-what-you-are-seeing-or-experiencing-is-everyone-elses-reality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beta.pewresearch.org\/pewresearch-org\/internet\/2013\/04\/15\/never-assume-that-what-you-are-seeing-or-experiencing-is-everyone-elses-reality\/","title":{"rendered":"Never assume that what you are seeing or experiencing is everyone else\u2019s reality"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Atul_Gawande\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Atul Gawande<\/a>\u00a0can shine a bright spotlight, even with just a few tweets. On Saturday he linked to an\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.internalmedicinenews.com\/single-view\/acp-and-fsmb-offer-social-media-guidelines\/e46e5672f671d1de36e6daa11ff13595.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">article\u00a0<\/a>about new social media guidelines for physicians which states:<\/p>\n\n<blockquote class=\"full is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Aside from not &#8220;friending&#8221; patients [on Facebook], the guidelines also recommend the following to physicians:<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Don\u2019t use text messaging for medical interactions, even with established patients, except with caution and the patient\u2019s consent.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Only use e-mail within the context of an established relationship with a patient, and with that patient\u2019s consent.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Establish a professional online profile so that it appears at the top of a web-based search, above any physician rating site.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Discourage e-mail or on-line communications with individuals who are not patients, instead referring them to make an appointment or visit an appropriate health provider.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Manage their digital image, including refraining from posting about personal social activities that might not reflect positively or providing less-than-measured comments on Twitter, blogs, or in response to online articles.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I captured a bit of the online conversation in a Storify, tweaking the title to characterize it more broadly:\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/storify.com\/SusannahFox\/doctor-patient-online-communication\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Doctor-patient online communication<\/a>. I didn&#8217;t want it to scroll away and be lost, since I think the reactions capture a moment in time.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Speaking of moments in time, I received an email on Saturday from Arash Najibfard, an undergrad at UCSD, who&#8217;d found my 2007 interview on NPR, &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.npr.org\/templates\/story\/story.php?storyId=15166387\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Patients Turn to the Internet for Health Information<\/a>,&#8221; and asked for a link to the 2001 AMA press release warning people about the dangers of going online for health advice. Happily, I saved a print copy of that release and a PDF lives on the e-patients.net blog:<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.e-patients.net\/AMA_Dec2001.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">AMA Suggests Resolutions for a Healthy New Year<\/a>\u00a0(December 20, 2001)<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One of the recurring themes of my work is to remind people that today is just a moment in time, that things will change &#8212; that things\u00a0<em><strong>have changed<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0even if you personally can&#8217;t see it yet.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">All of these conversations &#8212; this weekend&#8217;s tweets, the 2007 NPR story, the 2001 press release &#8212; are simply snapshots of a certain population at a certain time. Never assume that what you are seeing or experiencing is everyone else&#8217;s reality. Look to\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/beta.pewresearch.org\/pewresearch-org\/internet\/Commentary\/2011\/November\/Pew-Internet-Health.aspx\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">data\u00a0<\/a>to give you a clear picture. Look to leaders in the field to give you a sense of where things are going. And in the case of online communications about health, that sometimes means\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/e-patients.net\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">e-patients<\/a>, not clinicians.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;m not saying who&#8217;s right, who&#8217;s wrong, or what&#8217;s the right policy. I&#8217;m saying: Don&#8217;t assume. Keep your eyes and ears wide open. That&#8217;s what I learned from\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/doctom.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Tom Ferguson, MD<\/a>, one of my teachers, and from my grandmother,\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/wp-dyn\/content\/article\/2006\/04\/21\/AR2006042101965.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Rosalie Yerkes Figge<\/a>, who I talk about at the start of the NPR interview. They passed away the same week in April 2006 and I miss them every day.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Join a discussion about this post\u00a0on <\/em> <a href=\"http:\/\/susannahfox.com\/2013\/04\/15\/never-assume-that-what-you-are-seeing-or-experiencing-is-everyone-elses-reality\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> <em>my personal blog<\/em> <\/a> <em>.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the recurring themes of my work is to remind people that today is just a moment in time, that things will change &#8212; that things have changed even if you personally can&#8217;t see it 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